I'm going to state one "hard-to-admit" scenario that most guys in
S'pore experience (but WON'T know what to do about it)...
Here goes.
Ever faced a Saturday (or your off-day) when you're at home -
feeling BORED, thinking there's something BETTER to do than to stay
in your room...
... and knowing you're better off someplace else... like out
SOCIALIZING with women.
It's one of those: "I'm missing out something... a piece of the
action" kind of feeling. (You silently know there's something about
"women and dating" you should move your butt on)
Yet, before long, ANOTHER feeling sets in.
It's this STUCK feeling - like you want to do something but don't
know where to START.
So that feeling lingers...
In the end, you simply convince yourself you'll just stay home.
Discouraged and thinking, "I'll do something... maybe next time."
Yikes...
Now here's the thing - It's easy to 'want to get good with women'
but feeling unmotivated at the same time.
That's a YUCKY trap that you might be caught in.
So what to do?
Here's a 'break out of the yuck' idea you can use...
I want you to create a "hitlist" of women (not the perfect word I
know, but let's just use it for now).
Actually it's 2 hitlists -
1) A list of girls you want to APPROACH
2) A list of single DATE-ABLE girls you already know
Let's start with the first one - your APPROACH hitlist.
Grab a fresh piece of paper and a pen.
First let your mind "wide-roam" and come up with some women whom
you can approach (look at your everyday life, it's a good reference
to start)
To give you an idea...
Example APPROACH hitlist:
a) That girl standing at the same spot every morning while I'm
waiting for mrt
b) That new lady who just joined the marketing department of the
company
c) That woman working at the handphone shop next to my house
d) That cute girl in the gym who appears every Thursday
- etc...
So come up with your own approach hitlist, think without
restricting your mind (and don't let your mind rest until you've
came up with AT LEAST 3).
Moving on, take another paper and jot your DATE-ABLE women hitlist.
Again, these are single ladies whom you ALREADY knew and you
perceive them to be of date-able quality.
Note: For some guys it may be tempting to just easily brush off and
think there isn't any woman to date. Refrain from doing that... DIG
deep.
Example DATE-ABLE women hitlist:
a) 21 year-old air stewardess I got introduced to by my cousin at
his wedding last year
b) That woman I worked with 3 years ago at the temp job
c) That secondary school crush whom I still have her contact number
(she might be still single now)
d) My army buddy's sister I got to know at a chalet
- etc...
Go through your past and present to extract as much as possible a
list of single females to possibly date.
Such an act WIDENS your reality of 'possibilities with women'.
Now, let's KICK-START everything.
Grab a calendar (with big square spaces on each day) and start
filling up the days - WHEN you'll be approaching the ladies in your
hitlist and WHEN you'll be calling the ladies out for dates.
Then take FEROCIOUS committed action on it.
The entire thing is like your social 'warplan'...
... and if you ever find yourself wanting to go out to 'make things
happen' with women but your mind is caught in cement, refer to this
'plan' to break out of it.
Do the above and if you want to add more S'pore-focused ATTRACTION
skills and word-by-word phrases to make your conversations with any
woman you talk to smoothly comfortable...
... and obtain for yourself more gals' phone numbers and dates,
check out my ebook - "The Ultimate Singapore Girl-Getter" along
with its 2 BONUS reports (and one additional special bonus).
See it at:
http://www.seductionsingapore.com/ultimatebook
Note: This ebook and its bonuses is instantly downloadable (you can
be reading it and taking notes twenty minutes from now). I've also
added an alternate option of using ATM and Internet banking as a
means for you to own a copy.
That's it, take good care of your dating life.
With Respect,
Skilldo
P.S: Acting on the 'exercise' above in this e-letter will put you
one step AHEAD of other guys in Singapore to become successful with
gals.
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