11/21/09
Here's Your "WARPLAN" To Meet & Date S'pore Women
S'pore experience (but WON'T know what to do about it)...
Here goes.
Ever faced a Saturday (or your off-day) when you're at home -
feeling BORED, thinking there's something BETTER to do than to stay
in your room...
... and knowing you're better off someplace else... like out
SOCIALIZING with women.
It's one of those: "I'm missing out something... a piece of the
action" kind of feeling. (You silently know there's something about
"women and dating" you should move your butt on)
Yet, before long, ANOTHER feeling sets in.
It's this STUCK feeling - like you want to do something but don't
know where to START.
So that feeling lingers...
In the end, you simply convince yourself you'll just stay home.
Discouraged and thinking, "I'll do something... maybe next time."
Yikes...
Now here's the thing - It's easy to 'want to get good with women'
but feeling unmotivated at the same time.
That's a YUCKY trap that you might be caught in.
So what to do?
Here's a 'break out of the yuck' idea you can use...
I want you to create a "hitlist" of women (not the perfect word I
know, but let's just use it for now).
Actually it's 2 hitlists -
1) A list of girls you want to APPROACH
2) A list of single DATE-ABLE girls you already know
Let's start with the first one - your APPROACH hitlist.
Grab a fresh piece of paper and a pen.
First let your mind "wide-roam" and come up with some women whom
you can approach (look at your everyday life, it's a good reference
to start)
To give you an idea...
Example APPROACH hitlist:
a) That girl standing at the same spot every morning while I'm
waiting for mrt
b) That new lady who just joined the marketing department of the
company
c) That woman working at the handphone shop next to my house
d) That cute girl in the gym who appears every Thursday
- etc...
So come up with your own approach hitlist, think without
restricting your mind (and don't let your mind rest until you've
came up with AT LEAST 3).
Moving on, take another paper and jot your DATE-ABLE women hitlist.
Again, these are single ladies whom you ALREADY knew and you
perceive them to be of date-able quality.
Note: For some guys it may be tempting to just easily brush off and
think there isn't any woman to date. Refrain from doing that... DIG
deep.
Example DATE-ABLE women hitlist:
a) 21 year-old air stewardess I got introduced to by my cousin at
his wedding last year
b) That woman I worked with 3 years ago at the temp job
c) That secondary school crush whom I still have her contact number
(she might be still single now)
d) My army buddy's sister I got to know at a chalet
- etc...
Go through your past and present to extract as much as possible a
list of single females to possibly date.
Such an act WIDENS your reality of 'possibilities with women'.
Now, let's KICK-START everything.
Grab a calendar (with big square spaces on each day) and start
filling up the days - WHEN you'll be approaching the ladies in your
hitlist and WHEN you'll be calling the ladies out for dates.
Then take FEROCIOUS committed action on it.
The entire thing is like your social 'warplan'...
... and if you ever find yourself wanting to go out to 'make things
happen' with women but your mind is caught in cement, refer to this
'plan' to break out of it.
Do the above and if you want to add more S'pore-focused ATTRACTION
skills and word-by-word phrases to make your conversations with any
woman you talk to smoothly comfortable...
... and obtain for yourself more gals' phone numbers and dates,
check out my ebook - "The Ultimate Singapore Girl-Getter" along
with its 2 BONUS reports (and one additional special bonus).
See it at:
http://www.seductionsingapore.com/ultimatebook
Note: This ebook and its bonuses is instantly downloadable (you can
be reading it and taking notes twenty minutes from now). I've also
added an alternate option of using ATM and Internet banking as a
means for you to own a copy.
That's it, take good care of your dating life.
With Respect,
Skilldo
P.S: Acting on the 'exercise' above in this e-letter will put you
one step AHEAD of other guys in Singapore to become successful with
gals.
11/12/09
Buxomly Taiwanese singer Yao Yao to visit Singapore
Known for ample chest and petite frame, 19-year-old voluptuous singer Guo Shu Yao (better known as Yao Yao) has plans to give away some 'loving hugs' when she comes to Singapore this Friday to promote her latest music album, Love's Embrace, and to hold a meet-and-greet session with fans.
At 1.54m with impressive E-cups, she rose to instant fame due to her curvaceous and cute appearance. To promote her music album, she has been traveling around Taiwan distributing hugs to fans. A few days ago, she was at Taiwan's Nangang software park distributing hugs to the engineers around the area.
Labeled as The Next Big Thing, her events are estimated to cost S$10,000 each. And the singer has received at least 10 different invitations so far.
Apart from her rising popularity in Taiwan, Yao Yao is also famous in Hong Kong. She is estimated to be worth a six-figure sum in Hong Kong dollars and is rumoured to earn a total of S$250,000 by the end of this year.
Details of Yao Yao's Singapore vist:
Date: November 13
Time: 12 noon
Location: Changi Airport Terminal 1
Flight number: BR 225
11/9/09
"Zombie Game" or How to Bring them Back from the Dead
Men are simple creatures. Give us women, sports, alcohol and zombie films and I think most of us are more than happy. In the past it is clear that anytime we can merge a few of these things together it's fair to assume that the following creation is almost always a success.
Game night in the local bar with a group of hot chicks... Movie theatres that show zombie flicks and allow you to drink alcohol at the same time... The movie Zombie Strippers featuring the porn star Jenna Jameson... Ok maybe not the last one so much, but in general these are good combinations. So it won't be surprising for you to learn that I had a massive celebration after I discovered one of my favourite tactics to help in the battle to understand the opposite sex, namely the art of Zombie Game or, for want of a better description, how to bring them back from the dead!
First of all, let's take a look at the average woman and the way she handles a guy who gets her phone number. We can break it down into a simple format or system as shown below;
A) You exchange numbers and she likes you
B) You exchange numbers and she doesn't like you
C) You exchange numbers and at first she likes you but then she doesn't
D) You exchange numbers and at first she doesn't like you but then she does
Four simple options, some have great outcomes some not so great. Lets narrow it down a bit, because some of them we really don't have to worry about. A and D pretty much handle themselves. At the end of the day the result of these two is that you end up with the girl, in the case of D it may have taken a bit of "game" on your end but the simple fact remains you managed to pull it off. With regards to this particular article we can ignore those two.
What we're interested in are the two that don't go anywhere. B and C these two options share one incredibly simple characteristic. The girl doesn't like you. It's plain and simple. You send a few more messages to her and attempt to "game" her, but for whatever reason you've just managed to fail and she's lost interest. Soon enough she gets bored with replying and stops. Then you stop messaging her and for all intents and purposes she is considered "dead" to you.
Normally you would leave her number in your phone as a "ghost" of the memory of the relationship that could've been. If only you had said "this" instead or perhaps you should have done "that," it doesn't matter, she is lost, dead to you...Or is she?
What if there was some kind of magic voodoo that we could perform that would bring her back from the dead?
Some kind of magic ritual that would enable us to once again take a chance at "gaming" her and perhaps getting her to realise that we aren't the tool bag she initially first thought. After all, sometimes in the cold light of day the "funny" text message you sent at 3 a.m when half drunk may actually seem pretty lame now.
The good news for you is that women are not like men. They don't enjoy keeping ghosts in their closets as reminders of all the weirdos that have hit on them. They do something very rational in their minds. To ensure they never have to deal with that person again, and so they don't have to have the temptation of calling they decide to put them out of their life for good.
They delete the number.
So what we have here is a girl who you've been attracted to, met only once in a bar, made a pretty lame first impression with and who has then after a few simple text exchanges grown bored/lost interest and deleted your number.
This gives you the ability to work some incredible social voodoo.
You see, after 3 months or so she is unlikely to remember who you are. However you can be sure that any girl's number that is sitting in your phone is someone who you were attracted to enough to at least get her number. Over a period of 3 months of going out "gaming" its fair to assume you're going to have a good solid collection of girls phone numbers for people who for whatever reason just didn't go anywhere. All you have to do is BRING THEM BACK FROM THE DEAD!!!!
The idea is simple. You first send a text message designed to trigger a great deal of curiosity due to it being interesting or funny enough to attract her attention. When she realises she doesn't know who has sent it she should be curious enough to reply and voila! You've successfully gotten into a position where you can speak to her all over again from scratch making a brand new first impression and, in video game terms, gain a second life so you can attempt to succeed where you failed last time.
So lets look at possible messages that could trigger a response. Remember you're going to have the best results with your own personalised messages. If everyone reading this simply copies it word for word people are going to work it out REALLY quickly.
So lets look at some examples;
Quirky
"OMG I've just come home to my house to discover an infestation of smurf's. What should I do?"
Funny
"So I've got this problem I need help with... What's orange and sounds like a parrot?" (The Answer is a carrot - keep in mind that almost any joke would work)
Interesting
"So if you came home to find someone's sex toys on your sofa how are you supposed to react?"
These are just a few quick examples, of course from these it's pretty easy to see what you're looking to do. Don't make the mistake of trying to personalise them for each person.
Just mass send them out to every number in your phone book who hasn't been texting you recently. Not all will respond, but you're going to find that a good bunch of them do, more than you'll be able to realistically be able to meet up with at least, which is going to keep you busy for a while.
The response are going to range from funny response which will be easy to reply to down to;
"Do I know you?/Who are you?"
The easiest catch all response I've found for this is to reply, either;
a) "Actually I've no idea how we know each other, I sent that message out to a few friends and accidentally added you too it, lol. Still, you must be cool if I've got you in my phone so what's your answer?"
or
b) "I think we met a while back and you wanted to take me to coffee but I never got back to you because I've been up to my eyeballs in work/travelling. I seem to remember you seemed pretty cool so I'm curious, what's your answer?"
Though of course you may need to improvise the answers if they vary too much from this, though that's probably not a bad thing as it's going to help you relate to the person a lot easier.
Zombie game is a very powerful tool and one which shouldn't be abused. You really want to stick to doing these mass texts sporadically no more than every 3 months or so, (otherwise you're going to end up spamming them) Still if you are going out and actively practicing then you should find that you have a good lump of numbers to send this out to. This is one of the best methods I've found of bringing dead interactions back to life, and helping you get a second chance with a girl you may have blown it with in the past.
Finally remember, this isn't a replacement for doing things correctly in the first place, it is simply an effective way of giving yourself a second chance with a girl you may have met previously and want another chance with once your skills at game have improved. After all your skill's with women should have significantly improved over a 3 month period.
Feel free to reproduce this article and share it with your friends, especially with those who have a habit of talking about the "girls that got away." Who knows, it may be just what they need to give them a solid second chance with her.
The best thing about this particular method is that it doesn't involve you having to go out to a club or coffee shops to hit on girls. You can do this from the comfort of your sofa with the sports on the TV, holding a nice brew in your hand whilst watching Jenna Jameson strutting her stuff on stage in a bad B-movie zombie horror flick.
Adam Lyons
Game, the Way it's Meant to be Played.
11/2/09
Top 10 Pick Up Epiphanies
2. Nobody is judging you. They're too busy worrying about what you think of them. So instead of seeking her approval, give her yours. Then take it away. Then give it to her again. This is called flirting.
3. Women like nice guys. They just don't like weak guys. So you can still be nice, but you mustalso be confident and strong-minded. In order for a woman to be with you, she needs to feel safe with you.
4. It's not enough to just be yourself. You must be your best self.
5. There's a thin, but important line between being horny and being sexual. A horny man hits ona woman before she’s attracted to him. A sexual man waits until he’s attracted her.
6. Just because you're interacting doesn't mean you're attracting. Learn to recognize the difference between politeness and interest.
7. To win the heart of a woman, you have to be willing to risk losing her.
8. When a girl you went on a date with in thepast or who suddenly disappeared on you calls youout of the blue, it generally means one thing –so call back right away before she finds someone else to be with that night.
9. Always call a woman the day after sleeping with her and make her feel good about having letgo with you. Even if you don't want to see her again or she doesn't want to see you again. Don't ruin her for other guys.
10. Finally, to quote the wisdom of Canadian hockey player Wayne Gretzky, "You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take." So simply by approaching and saying something, no matter how badly you may bumble, you've dramatically increased your odds of being with her.
Best,
Neil